Are You a Romantic or a Libertine?

Based on the article that I read Are you a Romantic or a libertine by M.Scott Peck, M.D define love is paradox meanwhile romance is a prevailing sense of wonder or mystery surrounding the mutual attraction in love affair. This article is very interesting for us to read.

Are you a romantic or a libertine? M.Scott Peck, M.D stated that most dictionaries do not define love but simply describing its symptoms even countless books have been written about it. The definition just not fails to define what love is but as well incomplete in listing down it’s symptoms. Love can be defined in many ways but sometimes can’t explain the mix feelings that they have hatred and resentment that human beings have the same time. 

Even I do not know how to explain it, since for me, life and love is too deep to be described by words. My opinion for this article is both types of lovers are in love. But what makes it different is how or which way that they use to experience, show or to be love.

If we ask either they are romantic or libertine type person, most of them will say that they are romantic type person even some of them are libertine. This is because normally people will describe romantic lover is someone who is love his partner and give full commitment towards each other and showing their love in their own way. While Libertine lover is someone who is not confident, who are afraid to having a relationship and they not give the full commitment relationship.

But sometimes if we think deeply it’s better to have experience in the both way. For example not all romantic relationship will bring you happiness. It might be a false hope. Begin relationship with romantic feelings and felt that life was finally worthwhile. But eventually the relationship began to fall apart.